First of all, make sure you choose a place that is not in his or your neighborhood. Who wants to run into a neighbor, a co-worker, a friend or (worst case scenario), your spouse, while you are having your first extramarital date! Also, even if we know that you just love this cosy restaurant you go every month to, that is probably not the best choice to take your lover to dinner... Indeed, some of the waiters could recognize you and realize that the blond guy you usually have dinner with has turned into a hot dark-haired man...
That being said, it is now time to chose a place to meet him!
For the traditional ones, you have many choices: from this nice italian restaurant away from prying eyes to this fancy french bristro. If you just meet for a coffee (which can be a good idea for a first date: who wants to spend a whole evening with a guy you don't really feel like seeing again?)
Most of the time, people have an affair to spice up their routine: so why not spicing things up big time by having an original date? Go to a theme park: strong sensations, a crowded place, the feeling of living like to the fullest... That sounds like an original and cool idea, right?